A Fine Claret – Sherlock (Hatch-Barnwell) b. 28/05/2017

Sire: Redelyst the Piper. Dam: Majestyka’s Mystic of Jezzla

 

From seven to nine years old I spent the school holidays with a family who had a small dairy farm in beautiful hilly and wooded countryside near Leith Hill in Surrey.

They had dogs! Many Golden Labradors and during the time I spent there, a beautiful young dog called Yana became “mine”. We were inseparable. She slept at the foot of my bed and we went everywhere together both on the farm and when exploring the woods. We were never apart so when it came to going back to boarding school it was always agony. I rarely suffered from homesickness but leaving Yana was always painful. When it came for me to return to my parents after three years, the thought of leaving Yana was unbearable. I cut a lock of her coat and kept it well into adulthood. I cried as though the world had ended. I also vowed that this would never happen again.

When I met Dina in Yogyakarta she had a very pretty cross breed, mainly Golden Retriever, called Rosa. She vanished one day when we were in the UK. That was very sad but as it happened far away it was not as painful.

Loosing Felix the cat (a beautiful jet black Birman) was also very painful. He too vanished but in London.

I looked after a massive Labradoodle called Merlin for many months a few years ago in France and he and I ran many miles together everyday, and sometimes he would lag behind! It was quite a wrench leaving him behind too.

Life can be so ironic at times.

Some fifty five years plus later, you make an enormous decision to have a dog again. The pain of farewell faded but still poignant.

You find a perfect dog and to the outside world he is indeed perfect, flawless, handsome and admired. Yet nobody can see what lies within. We chose a beautiful puppy and Dina named him Sherlock. Sherlock has grown in to an amazingly handsome dog, full of energy and with an unbelievably friendly nature. On a country walk, or a stroll in the town, you would never know that there was anything wrong with him.

Everywhere we go people marvel at his good looks, his glossy coat and his incredible good nature, and, his wonderful name! We have learnt that to take him up town means stopping every few paces for him to be admired, complimented and petted and for us never to be in a hurry!

He has been dealt a horribly cruel hand that meant he was either to be put down, which needless to say is just unthinkable, or that he must find a home where he can live outside with other canine friends, and have human contact during the day which he craves.

Together we have endured five minor operations on his eyes which did not work so he now requires a more major surgery. He went through four months of having a Cystotomy (a catheter inserted into his bladder with a tap on the end) and had to have his bladder emptied manually many times a day. That too failed. Finally the vets, both local and a specialist team said that nothing more could be done.

He is no longer able to live in the house as one of the family and we were faced with an appalling choice. I wrote to everyone I could think of to find him a home. Most replies came back, very sympathetic but saying no. Others did not reply.

Then, Geraldine Cove-Print of the Irish Setter Rescue and Rehome Charity  (www.israndr.com ) called me. She said very simply “we can help, don’t worry”.

Geraldine and her group will deal with all Sherlock’s medical issues and find him a permanent home too. They are amazing and generous and we are very grateful.

We are so sad, devastated to give him away and yet very happy at the same time that he will live in a happy home!

On Monday 23rd July 2018 Mangir, my youngest daughter, and I met Geraldine and handed over Sherlock. She was very kind and gave the impression that she seriously knew what she was doing. It was an encouraging farewell as it was very apparent that Sherlock was going to be in very capable hands.

We had Sherlock at home with us as one of the family for nearly a year and from these photos (in no special order) you can see that he was much loved and we all had great fun.

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Sherlock with Mangir and his new owner, Geraldine

Today, 22nd August 2018, with more infections, failing kidneys and pain, Sherlock was put down. So sad, such devastating news. So brave of Geraldine to take on the responsibility of having Sherlock for his last chance of a cure. Awful it did not work.

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Sherlock by Mangir (aged five)

Merlin the giant Labradoodle, aged thirteen and a half, died after a short illness on Tuesday 28th August 2018. He was a great fellow….

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Merlin with Olly Hatch-Barnwell in La Chataigneraie

 

Remembering my friend Robert Neave

Robert died recently, robbed early of his life. This was all the more tragic because his life had taken on a new verve having met and married Vivi. They had such a short time together and we were lucky enough to be a very small part of that.

Robert and I became firm friends when we met in 1980-ish introduced by his cousin Lisa, who subsequently married another good old friend of mine, Jimmy, in Kuala Lumpur. Robert was chewing coffee beans and smoking roll-ups having just returned from Sumatra. He thought that chewing coffee beans was really cool!

We continued our friendship which enveloped Vivi when they met again some eight years ago for the first time in twenty five years. Although Robert was one of my closest and best friends, he was extremely popular, and judging by the incredible turn-out at his Memorial Service in Wells Cathedral in June 2016, he shared his friendship with at least two or three hundred others!

Vivi, Bertie, Alice and Sam were unbelievably brave at the service and the wake afterwards. I am only sorry that I didn’t meet up with Bertie.

When Robert first married in the eighties, he and Catherine had nowhere to live so they stayed with us in London for about three months or so until they found their feet. Robert and Vivi returned the favour when Dina and I were destitute with a baby imminently on the way. We stayed with them while we found our feet, (2012). In between London and Cabbage Lane, we kept in touch, holidaying together alone, or with Alice and then with Vivi. I stayed with Robert occasionally after he moved to Somerset. There were some great times and here are some photos of what happened over a thirty six year friendship…

There is only one photo from the early years (pre-digital) probably taken in 1984 just after Robert married, the rest are from about 2006 onwards….

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Chewed finger nails, rough, hard calloused skin, permanently injured fingers, one with a bit missing, and incredibly powerful hands, used frequently as a note book!

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A young Robert with a small Hatch-Barnwell, probably about 1984 in London

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Barcelona, on board Java Pearl

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Java Pearl – a 20 ton blue ocean yacht which Robert invariably tried to sail as though she was a dingy. The first time he came aboard in Southsea, he said “Goodness, this is the first boat I have ever been on that hasn’t rocked with my weight!” She was a really solid little ship and I was impressed that Robert was impressed!

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Four of us set sail on the 9th April 2006 from Southsea bound for Gibraltar and finally Almerimar. This included Robert Muir, Richard Mann, Robert and me. Robert had to jump ship early and treated us to a farewell dinner in La Coruña. It was very expensive and merely OK. Poor Robert because the next night we found a family run restaurant which was excellent – food and price! See the diary entry above.

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The crew who set sail from England. Cameret, north-east France

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The Bay of Biscay is renown for rough seas. Here we are, 150NM off shore in a flat calm

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Palermo. Who cares?

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Palermo, Sicily. In those days Robert wasn’t quite so techno minded

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Barcelona. Alice. I am so disappointed I can’t find any photos of Bertie and Sam!

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Marc Van Straceele and Robert. Also in the picture, Charles, Helen and Olly H-B, Michael Martin, Alice and Danny.

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Close to the Sagrada Família, Barcelona

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Robert made us all go around twice on this tour bus!

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Claude the French auto-helmsman was on duty while we snoozed on the way to Smir in Morocco. Vivi on the starboard quarter, Richard Philipps on the port side and Robert, who could be comfortable anywhere, asleep on the starboard deck

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On the way to Marina Smir, Morocco

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I can’t remember where this was – Robert and Vivi on deck

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Chefchaouen, Morocco

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Chefchaouen, Morocco

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The boat was berthed in Almerimar, Southern Spain, an area famous for tomatoes and this Golden Tomato was most significant to Robert. Robert sailed with me many times, and both in Almerimar and in Barcelona he met some of the Van Straceele family who are old friends of mine, and they too sailed with us. Marc, his father Jean-Paul (Pol), Robert and I sailed to Gibraltar and back from Almerimar and laughed all the way. We stayed with Marc’s family in the South of France last month and Marc was visibly shocked and saddened when I told him of Robert’s death. So too was Charles H-B. They all had got on very well together.

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We sailed Jimmy’s trimaran from KL to Langkawi and back. Rupert, Robert’s cousin, joined us. Rupert flew in from Canada for the Memorial Service in Wells. This is an antique shop in Langkawi.

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Robert on the tiller with Jimmy on board the trimaran

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A night cap in port

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An excellent lunch somewhere in Langkawi

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One of Robert’s famous breakfasts captured on canvas

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More breakfast

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Breakfast in the making

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Robert rigged up a pulley system inside his chimney to cure bacon – the results were great

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He fixed everything

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Boots were worn until they were completely worn out and seemingly never thrown out

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Skilled in so many things and so strong

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During the construction of the new half of number 37

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During the construction of the new half of number 37

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During the construction of the new half of number 37

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Some of the gang – his loyal team. During the construction of the new half of number 37

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Off to work


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The construction works at number 37

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Before the roof went up at Cabbage Lane

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While I was taking pictures Vivi would occasionally guard Mangir

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This is something Robert didn’t know about!

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Adding character and humour to his house

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A little person and a giant

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Trapped – now keep out of the building site!

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Ray, Robert’s right hand and now No 1 and owner of the initials

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No builder’s bum – laying the concrete floor

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I really don’t know what Robert was thinking here but probably “my breakfast is ready so let me eat it!”

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Fooling around with Sunya

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In the garden at Cabbage Lane well before any construction work began

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At dinner in Cabbage Lane

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Robert entertaining Sunya as an aeroplane, Vivi at the kitchen window

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Somehow Robert had smoke pouring out of his hat! We all cried with laughter!

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Stourhead Gardens – a favourite

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Blurred but it captures the constant amazingly friendly atmosphere we once shared. Stourhead

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Pausing for thought at Stourhead

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Vivi and a heavily pregnant Dina. Stourhead

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Must be supper as there is wine on the table!

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Teasing Sunya! and Sunya loving it!

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My turn to swing in the chair! Stourhead

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Supper by Dina at Cabbage Lane

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Dina cooking while Robert sorts out his work for the morning

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Yet another supper

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The Stuga. One of Robert’s construction projects at Cabbage Lane

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Tennis and his opponent…..?

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Sunya!!!

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A fraction under nine months and Dina can still get both feet off the ground!

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And Dina is the only one still standing after a tough game!

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Only a handful of people know what Robert has just done here

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Robert and Mangir

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In the wrong order – a wedding party shot in Brighton

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Barbecue by Robert

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Vivi and Mangir

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At April Cottage last summer (2015)

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For a barbecue – satay

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Joking around as usual

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Sunya watering a tree we gave Robert and Vivi at Cabbage Lane

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Always humour!

Au Revoir Robert – until we meet on the other side!

Robert Neave

21st July 1961 – 29th April 2016

and a final humorous gesture below …..

published on Tuesday 17th May 2016

robert's obituary highlighted

 

 

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Charlie and Michelle’s Wedding in France 19th September 2015

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Logis de Puygaty, 16250 Chadurie, France

An amazing location for the wedding of Charlie and Michelle. Family and friends came from all over the world to celebrate in serious style – the warmth and friendship felt by everyone was outstanding. Such an incredible wedding for my son and his bride – two beautiful people. So thank you so much for inviting us all, me, Dina, Sunya and Mangir, and thank you also, to Max and Pierre who provided this lovely venue. The photos here are from my perspective so they include pre-wedding pictures which are not of the bride and groom! (quite a few and in no particular order!)

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